Explore, learn,
and unlearn in a safe,
shame-free space filled
with curiosity and discovery.
PLEASURE STARTS WITH
YOU.
WELCOME TO PLEASUR
ED
I’m Dr. Kylie, a sex anthropologist and pleasure activist. I created Pleasur-ed because I believe that sex is about more than just danger and risk – it is also about pleasure.
We’ve all been taught how to protect ourselves, avoid diseases, and stay safe, but no one ever taught us how to feel good, how to connect with our bodies, or how to explore desire without shame.
Pleasur-ed exists to change the way we think about sex and pleasure – through knowledge, curiosity, and reflection. It’s a space to unlearn sexual myths, explore pleasure, and reclaim your body and desires as your own with confidence and curiosity
– and most importantly, without judgment.
Because pleasure isn’t extra – it’s essential. And you are absolutely worthy of it.
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Wherever you are in your journey, you’re in the right place.
✔️ Learn without shame – Let go of harmful beliefs, embrace curiosity, and redefine what pleasure means to you.
✔️ Connect with your body – Discover what feels good, in your own time, in a way that feels safe and affirming.
✔️ Express with confidence – Find the words to communicate your desires, needs, and boundaries with ease.
The A-Z Pleasure Guide is here to help – with research, real experiences, and reflection tools to guide your sexual exploration. No pressure. No expectations. Just space to explore, learn, and grow – on your terms.
At Pleasur-ed, we believe
pleasure is personal
– it begins with curiosity, connection, and self-discovery.
How to get started
01
educate
Think of this as your pleasure dictionary, encyclopedia, and interactive journal – all in one. Browse by letter or start with any term that sparks your curiosity. Each entry blends scientific research, personal stories, and reflective exercises to help you build a deeper understanding of pleasure.
02
explore
Pleasure isn’t just something you do – it’s something you feel and understand. Each post includes journal prompts, self-exploration exercises, and guided reflections to help you connect with your body and desires. No rush, no pressure. Move at your own pace, in your own way.
03
experiment
Turn knowledge into experience in ways that feel safe, exciting, and aligned with your desires. Explore new sensations, techniques, or perspectives – whether solo or with partner(s). Use guided exercises to tune into what feels good for you.
Ready to explore?
arousal
boundaries
clitoris
desire
erotic
Take your time, follow your curiosity, and start
wherever feels right for you.
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